Monday, 8 May 2023

Can Jesus make me happy? Hope

 


I think that we’re wired for hope.  It’s how God has made us.  Joy can be experienced in looking ahead to good things.  We enjoy planning our holidays.  We may feel a sense of excitement as we get ready for a wedding or a party.

It’s a very serious thing when people lose hope.  I remember going through a time of depression and feeling all hope was gone.  I had never felt this type of low before, and I feared that it would never lift.  It did lift.  I have talked to psychiatric professionals who assure me that the very darkest feelings almost always pass.  When I meet friends that are going through such dark times I try to assure them that it will not always be like this.

Christian hope is sure hope.  It is not like my hope that the Munster rugby team will win the European Cup next year.  Our hope in Christ is certain.  It is like when the Munster team go into the last play of the game more than seven points up.  The game doesn’t end until the play is over, but the opposition can’t score enough points in that play to overturn the result.  The final whistle has not blown, but I can start celebrating in the terraces.

The apostle Paul said that faith, hope and love remain for all eternity (1 Cor. 13:13).  It would seem that hope will be a feeling we experience in heaven.  Hope is looking forward in anticipation.  I don’t know how time will work in heaven, but it is as if we will be saying, ‘today was great, can’t wait for tomorrow.’  There will always be things there to look forward to.

Jesus gave hope to troubled people

The gospels are full of the love of Jesus.  On every page we see His compassion and love.  This is clearly the case on the night before the crucifixion.  That evening, when Jesus needed the disciples’ comfort more than ever before, He actually comforts them. 

Jesus knows what awaits those disciples in the coming hours will be very stressful.  In fact, that night Jesus warned all of us that we can expect trouble in this life (Jn. 16:13).  So, what does Jesus do to prepare them for the difficulties they are going to face?  Jesus tells them to trust Him, and to look ahead to what awaits them.  He gives them something to look forward to.  He gives them a sure and certain hope.

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me.  My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?’ (Jn. 14:1-2).

The cross and the resurrection are the grounds of our hope

When you think about Jesus preparing a place in heaven for you, don’t think in terms of Jesus tidying a room in the Father’s house or hanging your favourite pictures on the wall.  Think of Him hanging on a cross.  Jesus is telling the disciples that it is through His going—via the cross and resurrection—that He is preparing for us a place in the Father’s home.

 

Jesus looks forward to being with us

But I don’t live thinking about heaven all the time.  I am more likely to look forward to my summer holiday than I am to think of the eternity that lies beyond this life.  I think our apathy towards heaven may be because we have no idea how great it will be.  In fact, if you view of heaven as simply an eternal church service, then maybe you secretly dread it.

Heaven promises lots of wonderful things.  There will be no more sickness or pain.  God’s ways will no longer be a frustrating mystery to us.  God Himself will comfort us.  We will be reunited with Christian family and friends.  But the most important thing about heaven in that Jesus is there.

Look at the goal of Jesus’ work.  ‘I go to prepare a place for you, that where I am you may be there also.’  One of the puritans explained that it’s as if Jesus was saying, ‘the truth is I can’t live without you, I shall never be quiet until I have you where I am, that we may never part again … Heaven will not hold me, nor my Father’s company, if I have not you with me, my heart is so set on you; and if I have my glory, you shall have part of it.’[i]  We could say that Jesus enjoys the certain hope of being with us for ever.

So how does hope help us now?

Sometimes things happen in church that seem to show that the Holy Spirit is guiding the meeting.  I was speaking in church on these ideas on hope when my friend Angela got up to pray.  ‘Before I pray, let me just read a couple of verses.’  She began with Romans 12:12, ‘be joyful in hope.’  That’s exactly it.  Our hope is to give us joy.  Deep joy.  Jesus saw that the disciples would face difficulties in this life, and He responds with a trust me, and then gives them the sure grounds on which to build their eternal hope.  Knowing that any trouble that we face in life will pass gives us reason for joy.  Knowing that He looks forward to us being with Him in our Father’s house gives us joy.

Recognise the goodness of hope.  Every time you find yourself looking forward to a coming holiday or a party take note of how God has wired you.  We are wired to look forward in anticipation.  All our hope is a taste of an inner longing for heaven.  Indeed, every wedding should feed that longing for the heavenly banquet (Rev. 19:6-9), as should ever time we enjoy praising God (Rev. 4-5).     Think of the dynamic of hope for Jesus.  Jesus endured the cross for the joy that lay before Him (Heb. 12:2)

Even earthly hope can give us joy.  I remember one time when I suffering from severe exam stress.  One of the ways I calmed my mind was to realise that in a few weeks the exams would be over and I would be on my holidays.  The depressed person can look forward with the hope that this too will pass.  There may tears in the night, but joy comes in the morning (Ps. 30:5). 

Recognise that all other hopes fall short.  It’s not wrong to look forward to when the illness has passed or the holiday has begun.  Such hope is good for us.  I believe that we should regularly be thinking about those good things that we are looking forward to.  That is part of our fight for joy.  However, all our hopes fall short other than our hope in Jesus.  If we think that another experience or person can complete us, then we will be left demanding and frustrated, and you will squeeze the life out of your friendships. 

Taste the person we hope in.  Even now our experience of Jesus is incomplete.  We do not yet know Him fully (1 Cor. 13:12).  We have not yet seen Him face to face.  We still see dimly as in a mirror.  But we can taste Him.  We can spend time with Him.  We can experience Him through His people.  At times we even feel Him within us. 

Whenever you feel the presence of God, take note, that is a taste of heaven.  If you are struggling to feel the presence of Jesus does not mean that He is not with you.  It may simply be your circumstances affecting your mood.  Remember those times when you did feel His love.  Those times will return.  Indeed, they were just a sample from the heavenly banquet that awaits us. 

We look forward to our heavenly rest.  We will see that in our last chapter.  But first, let’s pray.

‘Lord, I believe.  Help me in my unbelief.  Teach me to enjoy spending time listening and talking with you.  May I see something of You in the love of Your people.  Please send the Holy Spirit to move me to cry out, “Abba, father.”  Let the unsatisfied longings for perfect love to cause me to look to the sure hope of what is to come.  May I never forget that the pain of this moment will soon be past, and that for the Christian the best is yet to be.  Amen.’            



[i] Thomas Goodwin, The Heart of Christ, page 16.

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