Tuesday, 25 April 2023

Can Jesus make me happy? (hope)

I have a problem with hell.  It is undoubtedly Jesus’ hardest teaching.  But I also have a problem with heaven.  It stretches my belief, and sometimes the pictures that people paint of heaven aren’t that attractive.

Heaven promises us lots of wonderful things.  There will be no more sickness our pain.  God’s ways will no longer be a frustrating mystery to us.  God Himself will comfort us.  We will be reunited with beloved brothers and sisters in Jesus.  But the most important thing about heaven is that Jesus is there!

Jesus wants to bring people to heaven

The gospels are full of the love of Jesus.  On every page we see His compassion.  On the evening before His crucifixion, when Jesus would have needed the disciple’s comfort more than ever before, He actually seeks to comfort them.  He knows full well what awaits Him the next day.  But He also knows that they will be left troubled and perplexed.  ‘Do not let your hearts be troubled.  Trust in God.  Trust also in me.  In my Father’s house are many rooms.  If it were not so I would have told you.  I go there to prepare a place for you’ (John 14:1-2).

‘Many rooms.’  Jesus is not reluctant to embrace and forgive people.  Earlier in John’s Gospel we read that the God did not send the Son to condemn the world, but to save it through Him (John 3:17).  If someone does not end up in heaven the responsibility is entirely theirs.  Hell stands as a terrible testimony to our human reluctance to be embraced by God’s infinite love.

Heaven is a result of the cross and resurrection

When you think about Jesus preparing a place in heaven for us, don’t think in terms of Jesus tidying a room in the Father’s house and hanging your favourite pictures on the wall.  Think of Him hanging on a cross.  Jesus is telling the disciples that it is through His death and resurrection that He is preparing for us a place in the Father’s home.  That’s why it makes perfect sense to say that Jesus is the only way to heaven.  If our lives could earn us a place in heaven would the Father have sent His Son to endure the pain of the cross?  If religion, whatever religion you choose, could earn you a place in heaven, would Jesus have endured such a thing?  If we are expected to contribute to our reconciliation with God, would Jesus have cried out ‘it is finished’ before He died?  It has been said by many preachers that the cross reveals that we are far guiltier than we ever imagined and yet far more loved than we ever dreamed.  I love the explanation of the gospel that points out that our wickedness is so serious that nothing less than the death of God’s own Son could deal with it, and that is exactly what God has done for us.

Jesus is looking forward for us to be with Him

Look at the goal of Jesus’ work.  ‘I go to prepare a place for you, that where I am you may be there also.’  One of the puritans wrote commented on this verse that it is as if Jesus was saying, ‘the truth is I can’t live without you, I shall never be quiet until I have you where I am, that we may never part again … Heaven not hold me, nor my Father’s company, if I have not you with me, my heart is so set on you; and if I have my glory, you shall have part of it.’[i]



Heaven is to be in the presence of Jesus.  The Jesus the Bible speaks of.  Not the Jesus of the human imagination.  The Jesus of the cross and resurrection.  Not the Jesus who is simply a good teacher.  It was to be in Jesus’ presence that made the apostle Paul long to depart this life.  It would make no sense for someone with little interest in God to go to heaven, for God’s presence is the very essence of heaven (Rev. 21:22).

So how does heaven make us happy now? 

In one sense heaven doesn’t make us happy now.  It leaves us with an unfulfilled longing.  We are not there yet, and we still have to live in a broken world of suffering and pain.  We were made for a perfect relationship with God, and yet we have to wait until He returns before we will know Him perfectly. 

Indeed, we need to be careful not to place our unfulfilled longings on the wrong shoulders.  Many people look for a person who will complete them.  But only Jesus completes us.  If you expect any relationship to satisfy all the longings of your heart you will squeeze the life out of your friendships and will always feel let down by people.  It is not that friendships aren’t good, but we need to put our hope in God alone.

But the thought of heaven leaves us with an unfulfilled longing, it also fills us with hope.  I believe we are wired for hope.  When I was struggling with depression one of the worst things was that I lost hope.  I feared the darkness would never lift.  But the darkness of depression lifts.  This too will pass.  It might come back again in the future, but the experts all tell me that the darkest places almost always lift.  If you are depressed at the moment you need to hear that.  If your life is in crisis you need to know that things will get better.

I have struggled a lot with anxiety.  I remember one time when I had terrible anxiety over some exams I was sitting.  I was anxious that I lay down and trembled on my bedroom floor because I couldn’t get an equation I needed to learn into my head.  But I found a strange comfort in going down to the sitting room, sleeping on cushions on the floor and thinking about the fact that I would soon be passed the exams and the summer holidays would arrive.  It was the hope of what lay ahead that kept me going.

I believe we are wired for hope.  You can see it in how we get so much pleasure in looking forward to a holiday we have planned.  We might be a little frustrated waiting to get there.  But the thought of it makes us happy.  That is one of the affects that heaven is to have on us now.  The hope of heaven brings a certain brightness to the darkness we may feel in this world.  In this world we will have trouble, but Jesus has overcome this world and has set His heart on bringing us home.

Hope is for certain

I enjoy watching the Munster Rugby team.  Rugby actually has a unique way of illustrating what Christian hope is like.  Whereas in soccer the game is up when the clock is up, in rugby the game can’t end until a play is finished.  If Munster are more than seven points up (the most that could be scored in any one play), then even though there might be a setback, and even though the game is not over, you can start celebrating the victory.

Jesus has won.  The has gone and prepared that place in the Father’s house.  Life may not yet be over.  There may be setbacks to come.  But the outcome is secure.  He has us in His right hand.  He will keep us to the end.  We can look forward with happiness and joy.  

How to get ready for heaven

So how do I overcome my problem with heaven—my unbelief, and my fear that it mightn’t actually be that great.  We overcome such thoughts by deepening our relationship with Jesus.  I was listening to my friend Mitch teaching about sharing our faith.  He mentioned the compassion of Jesus.  Those words jumped out at me.  There are things that I find hard in Jesus’ teaching.  But never forget His love and compassion.  The devil has always sought to cause people to doubt God’s goodness (Gen. 3:1-6).  We must fight to hold onto our confidence in Him.  We must wrestle in getting to know Him better.  We must ask the Holy Spirit to teach us that in His presence is the fullness of joy (Ps. 16:11).  As we learn to trust that joy we have the sure hope in what lies ahead.

Let’s pray:

‘Lord, I believe.  Help me in my unbelief.  Teach me to enjoy spending time listening and talking with you.  May I see something of You in the love of Your people.  Please send the Holy Spirit to move me to cry out, “Abba, father.”  Let the unsatisfied longings for perfect love to cause me to look to the sure hope of what is to come.  May I never forget that the pain of this moment will soon be past, and that for the Christian the best is yet to be.  Amen.’            



[i] Thomas Goodwin, The Heart of Christ, page 16.

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