Thursday, 12 August 2021

Don't let the super-spiritual steal your freedom

‘Someone will say, “You need to spend at least an hour a day in prayer,” and you can say, “No, I don’t.  Prayer is a good thing, but I don’t have to do it in order to earn God’s favour’[1] (Ken Blue).

The first sermon I ever preached was in Dungannon Methodist Church when I had just began working in a group of churches as a pastoral assistant.  For my text I chose, ‘You shall know the truth and the truth will set you free’ (Jn. 8:32).  I actually didn’t feel very free at that time.  I was haunted by my sin and was sure that I wasn’t good enough for God.

Super-spiritual Christians will try to rob you of your freedom in Christ.  Some will look down on you for your past failings and often they think that maturity in Christ is seen in terms of strictness of our Christian walk.  They may judge you by their rules, even though some of their rules are found nowhere in the Bible.

However, we are called to be free.  Therefore, we must not let arbitrary rules of the super-spiritual Christian rob us of the joy that we are to have through faith in Jesus.

A manifesto for freedom

The apostle Paul’s letter to the Galatian Christians has been called a manifesto for freedom.  The Galatians had started their Christian lives well, understanding that belonging to God was the result of placing your trust in the promises of God.  Paul had preached the message of the cross to them (Gal. 3:1).  On that cross Jesus had taken all their guilt and shame.  Jesus alone had done everything necessary to make them beloved children of God.

But some super-spirituals had infiltrated the church and thrown them off track.  The super-spirituals said that you weren’t a real Christian if you weren’t circumcised and obey the Old Testament Law.  These people who said that they loved the Old Testament Law didn’t actually understand it.  The way to be put right with God is the same in both the Old and New Testaments.  We see this through the life of Abraham, who simply took God at His word and was given the free gift of righteousness (Gal. 3:6).  The later giving of circumcision to Abraham and the Law through Moses didn’t change this way of being made right with God.

No one was ever supposed to rely upon obeying the Law as a means of being justified by God (Gal. 3:24-25).  The Law through Moses was given from the time of Sinai to reveal to us our need of God’s forgiveness and mercy and was only in place until the time of Jesus (Gal. 3:19).  If you try to earn God’s acceptance through law-keeping you are denying the gospel (Gal. 5:4).  Jesus comes as the end of that Law (Rom. 10:4).  We see Jesus showing us that this law is no longer to govern us as He does things like declare all food clean (Mk. 7:19).

The super-spiritual legalists were stealing the Galatian Christians of their freedom in Christ.  They were insisting on obedience to a Law that no longer binds believers.  They made the message of the Bible one of grace plus effort rather than simply grace alone (see Eph. 2:8-9).  I once met a student who insisted that the Law of Moses was still in force today.  So, I asked him about rules concerning tassels on his garments (Num. 15:38).  To my surprise he lifted his shirt and showed my little tassels hanging from the belt straps on his jeans.  Still, he didn’t seem to follow the rules around hair length (Lev. 19:27).  He told me that he was still trying to figure that one out.

Today’s super-spirituals may not insist on observing the Old Testament Law, but they will try to force you to obey laws that aren’t given to the Christian.  They may take something like alcohol, what you wear to church, what sort of entertainments you like or how much you give to and suggest that you are a weak Christian at best, and possibly not a Christian at all, if you don’t reach their standards.  In the face of such legalism we need to hear the apostle Paul’s call to stand firm in our freedom. 

Freedom from legalism

The legalists in Galatia denied this gospel of grace by suggesting that you contributed something to being made right with God.  What a terrible message.  How would you every know if you had done enough?  No wonder that it robbed the believers of their joy (Gal. 4:15, GNB).

The apostle Paul tells us to stand firm in our freedom (Gal. 5:1).  But what does freedom look like?  If you think that your law-keeping is earning God’s love, then you don’t get the gospel.  If you are adding laws to the Christian life then you are denying the gospel.

When I was in Dungannon I was aware that many Christians disagreed with going to the pub.  That might be right for them, but I could see nothing in the Bible that says I couldn’t go. 

At that time, I was playing rugby with the bottom teams in the local club.  I wanted to get to know those guys better, so when they asked me to join them for a drink I knew it was the right thing to do.  But I did not feel free.  I actually considered staying in that bar until it was dark, so that no church people would see me leave.  When I did leave my heart sank when I heard someone call out my name, but I breathed a sigh of relief when I realised it was one of the other rugby players that was calling me.

I am not saying that going to the pub is always a good idea, and for some Christians it may be a very bad idea.  But it helps to remember that Jesus was condemned by the super-spirituals of His day.  They saw who He associated with and the places He went to and called Him a glutton and drunkard (Matt. 11:19).  Ken Blue explains that ‘if you aren’t accused by the religious of being sift on sin, if you aren’t accused of encouraging people to be “too free,” then you are not yet preaching the gospel.[3]

You also don’t get the gospel if you think that God is simply interested in how tight you are.  I was talking to a man who left the church where I was ministering.  He felt that we were too lax.  He boasted about his new pastor saying, ‘when you listen to him you would question whether you are really a Christian at all.’  That made me wonder what this pastor actually was teaching.  It also makes me wonder why people would enjoy been condemned all the time.

Sometimes people come up with rules for the best of reasons.  They might want to protect themselves and others from temptation.  After all we pray, ‘lead me not into temptation’ (Matt. 6:13).  Avoiding places where you might find yourself tempted is not necessarily legalism.  I don’t drink alcohol because when I was a teenager I could not handle it.  But I must not make this a rule for other people, or look down on those who feel free to drink.

When to curb our freedom

Rule-making is dangerous.  It can rob people of their freedom.  But there are times when we should sacrifice our freedoms in love for each other.  This is especially true for leaders, for some people will decide what is right and wrong for them simply on the basis of watching what you do.

The apostle Paul told the Christians in Rome not to quarrel over opinions.  There were those whose conscience would not let them eat foods that the Jews considered unclean.  They weren’t like those legalists in Galatia who claimed that you weren’t a real Christian if you didn’t abstain from such meats.  They were simply Christians who had a weak conscience, who felt uneasy about not adhering to Old Testament food laws.  He tells those who knew that they were free to eat all foods not to despise those who didn’t share their freedom.  He also tells those whose consciences were not free not to judge those who did eat all meats (Rom. 14:3).  He further adds, that the person with the strong conscience must not put pressure on others to act against their tender conscience (Rom. 14:23).  If you are having someone over who feels strongly that Christians should not drink alcohol, then don’t serve such drinks at the meal.  Don’t hurt them with your lack of consideration.

Of course, when someone disagrees with us on a disputable matter don’t assume that they are always wrong and you are always right.  It could be that what you call freedom is actually compromise.  They may refuse to go to some of the movies you go to.  But might they have a point?  Maybe they are not being legalistic but fleeing from such things as sexual immorality (1 Cor. 6:18).

Good things turned bad

In our church we are trying to encourage people to join a small group.  When someone asks to become a member, we tell them that we expect that they will connect with one of these groups.  But we need to be careful.  Being a part of a small group doesn’t make you a better Christian.  In some instances, where people’s work life is very demanding, it might actually be better that they spend time at home with their family than going out to a church meeting. 

I have heard Christian complain about those who do not attend the church prayer meeting.  But attendance at the church prayer meeting is not necessarily a measure of spiritual maturity.  I have been in churches where people complained about those who didn’t go to the evening service as well as the morning service.  But there is nothing to say that you need to go to church more than once on a Sunday. 

When we started an evening service in our church we made it clear that this was not about encouraging people to come out twice but offering an alternative service to those who would benefit from it.  I think it is a subtle form of legalism when we judge people for not being as enthusiastic as us in their praise or when we think that they are being over the top in their praise.  Only God knows what is going on in their hearts.  Be careful not to make laws around good things like fasting, Bible-reading, giving and prayer, or using these as a means of trying to make yourself a better Christian than other Christians.

Don’t judge people on issues that are disputed

I think we need to be particularly careful on issues that Christians have debated for centuries.  Some see ‘the Lord’s Day’ (Sunday) as form of the Old Testament Sabbath.  Others believe that the Old Testament Sabbath is fulfilled in the rest we have in Christ and so there is not special holy day.  The arguments around this are complex.  Someone may treat Sunday in a way that you don’t, but don’t assume that they are either being legalistic, or that they are simply ignoring the commands of Scripture.

Legalism turns people away from Jesus 

Cathy grew up in Miami.  She was from a comfortable middle-class Jewish family.  Then she met Barry.  Barry was a Jehovah’s Witness.  Through Barry’s influence she too joined the Witnesses.  She did the obligatory hours of sharing her faith.  She went along to the meetings.  It was fine at first.

But then it began to feel toxic.  Kathy and Barry were married and moved to another part of the country.  There some of the stranger rules began to affect her family life.  For example, you weren’t allowed celebrate birthdays.  When she bought a Mother’s Day card, Barry saw it and called it sacrilege.  She found that being a Jehovah’s Witness sucked all the joy out of her.

She began to want to leave the Jehovah Witnesses, but this was not easy.  Pressure was put on her by that cult.  Leaving left her with emotional scars.  Kathy no longer has any interest in anything that calls itself Christian.  In fact, she actively works to keep people away from controlling religious groups.  She told one writer: ‘the hardest thing for me to cope with now is the realisation that there’s no paradise to go to one day.  That when I die, I’ll just end up as nothing in a box, in the ground.  That’s been the toughest thing about losing my faith—knowing that there’s no hope of resurrection.  Knowing that this is it.’[4]

The legalism found in a cult robbed Kathy of freedom and left her disillusioned.

The freedom to obey

But freedom scares people, particularly those who lead churches.  How will we get people to behave if can control them through rules?  The author of Pilgrim’s Progress, John Bunyan, was accused of telling his congregation that God loved them too often.  ‘If you always tell them that God loves them,’ the complaint went, ‘then they will simply do what they want.’  Bunyan replied, ‘if they realize that how much God loves them they will do what He wants.’

The super-spiritual Christian does not understand the dynamics of true holiness.  True holiness comes from the inside out, but the legalist is focusing only on outward performance (Matt. 23:25).  While people judge by appearance God cares about our heart (1 Sam. 16:7).

There is a formula that leads to holy living.  Forgiveness leads to love.  When Jesus forgives a woman, who was notable for her sinful lifestyle, she responded with adoration.  Jesus explained to the legalists who held her past against her that she loved much because she was forgiven much (Lk. 7:47).  They didn’t love because they didn’t realize that they needed to be forgiven.  When we realise that depths of sin in our hearts and that God’s grace is more than sufficient to forgive and cleanse us, then love is stirred up in our hearts.

This love that is stirred up by grace leads to a desire to obey Jesus.  Jesus was not nagging the disciples when He said, ‘if you love me, you will keep my commands’ (Jn. 14:15).  He was simply stating a spiritual truth.  When we understand the freedom and love we have in Christ, we will want to lovingly live a life that pleases Him.  We will not want to abuse grace.  This is what Augustine meant when he said, ‘love God and do as you please.’

God not only provides us with the desire to obey, He also gives us the power to obey.  The truth is that we can’t produce true holiness by our own efforts.  The power of the cross has freed us from slavery to sin (Rom. 6:6).  When temptation comes remember that it is no longer inevitable that you will fail.  Look to the way out that God promises you (1 Cor. 10:13).  God is working within you to will and act according to will and act according to His good purpose (Phil. 2:13).  The Holy Spirit is transforming us into the likeness of Christ (2 Cor. 3:18).  We act as we flee from sin, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness (1 Tim. 6:11).  But we know that we can only flee sin and pursue righteousness in the power that God provides. 

In the first sermon I ever preached I thought that I was showing how cultured I was by referring to the film, ‘The Three Colours Blue’.  This film was a part of a trilogy celebrating the ideals of the French Revolution: ‘liberty, equality and fraternity.’  In this film the heroine loses her family in a car crash.  She realises that she is now free from the bonds of family.  So, she cuts herself off from all her previous friends and lives in isolation.  But she finds that she is not free.  It is only when she starts to fall in love again that she is truly free.

Freedom comes in the bonds of relationship.  Christian freedom comes when we understand the love of Jesus.  We know that we cannot be truly free when we live for ourselves.  When we follow Jesus, we are denying ourselves for the only one who has the perfect love and wisdom to show us what is best for us.  Jesus said, ‘you will know the truth and the truth will set you free’ (Jn. 8:32).

Could grace be a better motivator than law?

I served in a church where they produced a list every year where they listed who gave how much.  When I suggested that this was wrong, someone explained that if they stopped telling everyone how much people gave the church would lose money.  Surely such an attitude denies God’s faithfulness to provide.  Do we think that God cares more about how much we give than why we give?

Some churches put a big emphasis on tithing.  I actually can’t see the principle of a specific tithe in the New Testament.  It seems to me that each Christian is given the freedom to give what they have decided in their heart to give (2 Cor. 9:7).  But if we simply encourage people to joyfully give, will our churches go bust.  It might actually be that as people are motivated by God’s grace to respond generously that giving might go up.  Why do we automatically assume that law is a better motivator than grace?

Conclusion

Sadly, many super-spiritual Christians burn out.  Aiden Swan points out that in his twenties he began to encounter Christians who had been raised to see Christianity in terms of dos and don’ts and who insisted that there were things he had to do to become a ‘better’ Christian.  He saw the agony that these people went through trying to follow their rules, and the feelings of guilt because they never felt good enough.  He also noticed that some of them got so tired of this performance treadmill that they simply gave up. 

I heard of a man who was involved in a Bible study for those ‘elite’ Christians in his church who agreed with his particular theurgical leanings.  He looked down and quarrelled with those who didn’t hold to his particular beliefs.  But, as far as I know, he believes nothing anymore.     

Some studies in America have shown that the least happy people in that culture are conservative evangelical Christians, because they hold to a high standard to which they believe God has called them, but they are stuck without the power to reach that standard.[5]  This should not be.  God does not treat us as our sins deserve but according to His loving-kindness (Ps. 103:10).  Yes, Jesus tells us to be perfect (Matt. 5:48), but His blood covers our blood covers our imperfection (1 Jn. 1:7).  In Him we should be enjoying the power to change.  We are in the glorious and gradual process of being made like Christ (2 Cor. 3:17-18).

Finally, remember that we are free.  We are free from condemnation, and we are as accepted by God as much when we are having a bad day spiritually as when we are having a good day spiritually.  We are also free from trying to earn brownie points from God by trying to out-preform other Christians.  We are free to ignore the rules that legalists try to place upon us.  We are to be free as we refuse to listen to the voices of those who condemn and criticise.  Let your freedom bring you joy!

We have seen that super-spiritual Christians condemn and criticise those who don’t live up to their own rulers, but what motivates them to do this?  Why do super-spiritual Christians feel the need to be better than everyone else?  That is what we will look at in the next chapter.



[1] Ken Blue 104.

[2] Russell Moore, ‘Abortion and the Gospel’.  Https://www.russellmoore.com/2015/01/22/abortion-and-the-gospel-2/

[3] P173.

[4] Kennedy p. 32.

[5] Ken Blue and Aiden Swan, The Gospel Uncensored (Bloomington, Indiana: WestBow Press, 2010), p. 184

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